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Once
again, it is open season in America’s schools.
Two students killed in San Diego. One wounded in Pennsylvania. The very
real prospect of future teenage copycats trying to get their 15 minutes of
fame. What is going on? If you listen to the media and liberal
politicians, they will tell you that the answer to school violence is more
gun control. They are wrong. The answer is more parent
control.
At the
same time that gutless cowards were gunning down innocent people,
prestigious Harrison High School in Cobb County was experiencing a drug
bust. Thirteen students were arrested for selling drugs to an
undercover policeman. The reaction? The president of the PTA
assured us that drugs were no bigger a problem at Harrison than at any other
school. One parent even complained of “police entrapment.”
Hello. Is anybody home?
Ours is
an indulgent and permissive society in which no one wants to take
responsibility for anything. We are afraid to tell our kids “no” for fear
of them not liking us. We want them to be popular and fit in. We are more
concerned about the clothes they wear and the cars they drive and that they
have the freedom to wear earrings and dye their hair purple than we are
about them being in a structured and disciplined environment in which they
learn something.
We feed
kids a constant diet of trash – trash music, trash movies, trash television
and trash talking athletes. We buy them violent video games and let them
listen to rappers who encourage more violence and then we wring our hands
and wonder why some nut case would take a gun into school and shoot innocent
people.
When I
was in school, teachers were admired and respected individuals whose word
was law. The classroom was their domain. What they said was the way it was
going to be and parents backed them up. I didn’t like a lot of what I heard
and on several occasions I rebelled. The result was I got in trouble at
school and in more trouble at home with parents who were totally supportive
of my teachers. It was not a happy time for me and I finally decided I had
better get my act together.
Today, I
would just hire a lawyer and go sue somebody – the teachers, the principal,
the school board. I would particularly sue the ROTC instructor who said I
had to wear my uniform to and from school and if I didn’t, I would receive
demerits and be forced to march after school. I refused to wear my uniform
and sure enough, I marched after school.
If you
were caught smoking when I was in school, you were history. Today, we
have dogs sniffing lockers for stuff a lot stronger than tobacco. We
have to have armed guards in our schools. In my day, we didn’t need
them. The principal served as the armed guard. We had one
classmate in high school who got herself compromised (if you get my drift)
and she just disappeared like she had never been there. Today, high
schools run day care centers for single mothers.
We say we
want to improve the quality of education in our schools. Instead, we make
them political footballs. As a result, teachers are told what to teach,
when to teach and how to teach. They have about as much freedom as a lifer
in Reidsville. And God forbid they should correct the kids. In the first
place, students know how much authority the teachers have and it isn’t
much. Students know also that parents will take their side.
The
craziness isn’t going to stop until we decide where the ultimate, absolute
buck-stops-here responsibility lies. It is not the teachers, not the
governor, not the school board. It lies with the parents. Period.
Until we
hold the parents responsible for seeing that their children respect their
teachers, abide by the rules and make an effort to learn, we are going to
have angry, uninvolved students and drug problems. Until we kick the
lawyers and the civil libertarians and the politicians out of the classroom
and let the teachers be in charge, we are going to face more Columbines and
more Santana High Schools.
The
answer is easy. The parents are the problem. The tough part is getting
them to admit it and to take responsibility for their children. Until then,
the inmates will continue to run the asylum and it makes me sick. |